Helping you find Love with Clarity and Confidence.
Ditch the dating games. Discover your patterns, shift your mindset, and attract what (and who) you really deserve.
Let’s make dating feel right.
Dating doesn’t have to feel daunting, and like a guessing game. I’m Paula, founder of The Dating Whisperer, and I help women attract real relationships.
Whether you’re new to dating, feeling burned out by apps, stuck in old patterns, or just ready to try something different, you’re in the right place.
Meet The Dating Whisperer
Hi, I’m Paula, founder of The Dating Whisperer and your dating and early relationship coach. I help women like you cut through the noise, feel clear and confident and date with intention. Finding love isn’t about getting lucky, its about discovering the secrets to successful dating and being certain that the way we date and who we date is aligned with ourselves.
Work with me
Because the right relationship starts with the right approach.
If you’re anything like my clients, you’re successful in so many areas of your life but dating feels like the one piece of the puzzle that doesn’t quite work.
Maybe you’ve been:
Feeling overwhelmed by dating Apps.
Attracting emotionally unavailable partners.
Falling too fast, too often and getting hurt.
Overthinking messages and the dates themselves.
Feeling as if you’re too much or not enough.
Wondering whether a loving relationship is even possible!
I’ve been there. I know it feels sad and absolutely exhausting.
BUT there is good news. You don’t have to feel alone and it doesn’t need to feel so difficult and dreadful. Together we can make sure you enjoy dating and feel energised by the process.
INTRODUCING: The Dating Whisperer.
The Dating Whisperer approach isn’t surface-level advice, it’s a deep, supportive and proven approach that is measurable and accountable. I have created the “Date in Eight” process; eight steps that are designed to help you break old, ineffectual patterns, understand your true needs and navigate the modern dating world with greater clarity and confidence. Investing in this process will help you attract that special someone who is genuinely aligned to you.
Each of the eight steps is delivered in person by me, The Dating Whisperer, and each is tailored to your individual needs and experiences.
Date in Eight: Full Package
£650
The Full Package is the most popular option, which delivers significant changes to your dating approach and long-term results. This covers full access to all eight steps plus up to 5 “SOS” messages between each step. The eight coaching calls take place weekly or bi-weekly, 90 minutes for step 1 and 60 minutes thereafter. “SOS” messages are via WhatsApp or e mail between sessions, these are great for helping you navigate any challenges you are facing once you’ve started dating.
Date in Eight: First Four Steps
£360
This option is the recommended minimum to deliver meaningful results that last. The first four package covers; Self Discovery, Perfecting your Profile, Weed Out Questions and Dating Communication. The first step is very comprehensive so requires 90 minutes, the following three take 60 minutes each.
£100 each
This is the most flexible option. I recommend always starting with step one, a 90 minute coaching call. From there you can pay as you go, by picking and choosing from the other seven steps to best suit your specific needs.
Date in Eight: Individual Steps
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Ready to start? Choose a time and a service that feels good for you - your journey towards your Happy Ever After begins here.
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Not sure where to start? That’s completely okay. The best way to explore what’s right for you is to send a quick message. It would feel great to hear from you.